I read a powerful anecdote in a recent article in the Harvard Business Review ("The Power of Mattering at Work") written by Zach Mercurio. The article was adapted from his newly released book, The Power of Mattering: How Leaders Can Create a Culture of Significance. Mercurio starts the article by telling a story about Jane, an environmental services employee at a local university. Jane had just started the job after previously working as a live-in caregiver for a beloved family member who had recently passed away. After a few shifts, she found herself struggling and asking, "Why couldn't I have done something more with my life?" or "I wish I were more than just a janitor."
Luckily, Jane's supervisor noticed her struggling and handed her a dictionary. She asked Jane to look up the word custodian and read the definition out loud. Jane responded, "A custodian is a person responsible for looking after something." Her supervisor pointed at her and said, "That's you. You're responsible for and take 'custody' of this building and everyone in it."
Jane's perspective changed because her supervisor pointed out to her that what she was doing mattered. She wasn't "just" a janitor - she was "responsible for the building and everyone in it." She was their custodian. Jane ended up staying on the job for the next 18 years before finally retiring.
The story reminds me of another one that I've mentioned a couple of times in the past (see "Back to that Vision thing...NASA, cathedrals, and an automobile executive" and "We are all caregivers..."). The story involves President John F. Kennedy and a janitor that he met during a tour of the National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA). President Kennedy asked the janitor, "What do you do here?" The janitor responded, "I'm helping put a man on the moon." Even if there's no evidence that this story actually happened (there's a similar story about the famous architect Christopher Wren, who designed St. Paul's Cathedral in London), it's yet another powerful reminder of the importance of mattering.
Mercurio defines mattering as the experience if feeling significant to those around us because we feel valued and know that we add value. It's more than just a sense of belonging (feeling welcomed and accepted in a group). When we matter to the group, we feel significant to the individual member's of the group.
Study after study has shown that when employees feel that they matter at work, they experience greater self-esteem, self-worth, and self-efficacy. Mattering strengthens motivation, well-being, and performance. Unfortunately, Mercurio cited polls that show that 30% of individuals feel "invisible" at work, 65% of employees feel underappreciated, and close to 82% of individuals feel lonely at work (see my previous post on the epidemic of loneliness). He wrote further, "Many of the workplace challenges currently plaguing leaders - a 10-year low in engagement numbers, demands for dignity and equity, increased labor action, declining employee mental health, and a few years ago, quiet quitting and the Great Resignation - can be traced to a growing mattering deficit."
The great Modernist poet T.S. Eliot reportedly once said, "To be of importance to others is to be alive." If we can make that connection in someone's mind that what they do truly matters to the mission of the organization, we can take an important step in addressing the growing mattering deficit that Mercurio refers to in his article. Mattering matters. And I'll come back to this topic in a future post.


