Today, May 25, 2026 is Memorial Day in the United States of America. The first national observance of what would become Memorial Day occurred on May 30, 1868, when General John A. Logan, Commander-in-Chief of the Grand Army of the Republic, a fraternal organization composed of veterans who had served in the American Civil War, proclaimed "Decoration Day" to honor all of those Union soldiers and sailors who had died during the American Civil War. "Decoration Day" as a national observance followed many local observances that had started shortly after the end of the war. Statewide recognition soon followed, beginning with New York in 1873. By 1890, every (formerly) union state had adopted the observance. The two world wars turned the "Decoration Day" into a day of remembrance to honor all those who had died while serving in the U.S. military. Congress officially changed the official holiday to "Memorial Day" and the date to the last Monday in May in 1968.
Notably, two other days celebrate those who have served or are currently serving in the U.S. military. We celebrate Armed Forces Day on the third Saturday of May to honor all of those men and women currently serving in the U.S. military. We celebrate Veterans Day on November 11 to honor all of those men and women who have previously served in the U.S. military.
I have always enjoyed Memorial Day. I grew up in Indianapolis, and we used to listen to the Indianapolis 500 automobile race on the radio every Memorial Day weekend (the race was always - and I believe still is - blacked out on the local television stations). There's nothing quite like the Indy 500 in all of sports! We often hosted a Memorial Day barbecue with family and friends at our house. I can still taste the hot dogs, hamburgers, and cherry pie with homemade ice cream!
As I've grown older, I have come to realize how important it is that our nation honors those who have died in service to their country. I've frequently posted something about what Memorial Day has meant to me over the years (see last year's post, "The price of freedom..." for the links to a number of these posts over the years). I recently read a great book (all of his books are great, by the way) by Admiral William McCraven, who retired from the U.S. Navy in 2014 after a distinguished 37 year career. Admiral McCraven is perhaps best known for his May 19, 2014 commencement speech at the University of Texas (the so-called "Make Your Bed" speech), which I posted about several years ago (see "If you want to change the world, don't ever, ever ring the bell"). His latest book, Duty, Honor, Country, & Life: A Tribute to the American Spirit is a collection of his speeches, essays, and poems that all honor those who serve, both as members of the U.S. military and civilians alike. The title is adapted from General Douglas Macarthur's farewell speech delivered at the U.S. Military Academy at West Point on May 12, 1962.
General Macarthur said, "Duty, Honor, Country — those three hallowed words reverently dictate what you ought to be, what you can be, what you will be. They are your rallying point to build courage when courage seems to fail, to regain faith when there seems to be little cause for faith, to create hope when hope becomes forlorn."
Admiral McCraven talks about a verse from the Holy Bible (Isaiah 6:8) in his chapter, "Send Me" (based on a toast that he gave to members of the U.S. military at an annual meeting of the Alfalfa Club):
Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, "Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?"
And I said, "Here am I. Send me!"
There's a powerful scene from the 2014 film Fury, starring Brad Pitt, Shia Leouf, and Logan Lerman, that includes the same verse. Admiral McCraven says that this same Bible verse is read by a priest, minister, or rabbi during every "Dignified Transfer" ceremony, as a fallen military member's casket is carried by six pallbearers and loaded onto an airplane for the return of his or her remains back home. During his toast, Admiral McCraven said:
"The soldiers say 'Send me,' because they believe. They believe that we are the greatest nation on the face of the Earth. They believe that we are the good guys - the knights in shining armor, the guardians of liberty. They believe that we will free the oppressed, protect the innocent, and lift up the downtrodden. They believe that we are willing to lay down our lives for the good of the country and the world. They believe because they have seen their parents and grandparents before them fight Nazism and fascism, totalitarianism, communism, and terrorism. They believe that the men and women in this room are the tellers of truth, the upholders of the law, the defenders of the constitution - and everything we do is right and just and honorable and good...Ladies and Gentlemen, would you please stand and raise a glass. To those who believe and say 'Send me' - to the troops!"
So today especially, we honor and cherish the memories of those brave men and women who gave their last full measure of devotion to what it means to be an American. As you sit down with family and friends, enjoying the beautiful summer weather, sitting by the pool, grilling, or whatever you are doing, please take a moment to pause and remember that those whose day we are celebrating made a clear, deliberate choice to serve, and if necessary, die for their country. "There is no greater love than to lay down one's life for one's friends." Today we honor those who stood up and said, "Send me." They believed that ours is a cause worth dying for. And it is still a cause worth dying for.
There is no better way to honor and cherish their memory than to continue their cause. "It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the greatest task remaining before us - that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they here gave the last full measure of devotion - that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain - that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom, and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth." [from The Gettysburg Address by Abraham Lincoln]
Our work has only just begun. Our toughest days lie ahead, but we are up to the test. Here are we. Send us. "Rest easy shipmates. We have the watch."