Chris Pratt and Jennifer Lawrence starred in the 2016 movie "Passengers" as two passengers on an interstellar spacecraft carrying thousands of people to a colony on 120-year journey from Earth. Everyone on board is suspended in hibernation for the duration of the voyage, and the spacecraft runs more or less on auto-pilot. Unfortunately, due to a malfunction, Pratt's character, Jim wakes up from suspended hibernation about 90 years too early. He is all alone on the spacecraft.
Jim eventually wakes up Jennifer Lawrence's character, Aurora, because he is lonely. They fall in love, get in a fight, rescue all of the passengers, and eventually, by the end of the movie...I won't spoil it.
There's a scene in the movie where Pratt's character is talking to an android bartender, named Arthur. He's feeling sorry for himself, and Arthur gives him some really good advice. It's advice that we all should take to heart (check out the video clip here). Here's the transcript (and I am paraphrasing slightly to shorten it up):
JIM: I'm your only customer, but you're always polishing a glass.
ARTHUR: Trick of the trade. Makes people nervous when a bartender just stands there.
JIM: Okay. Lay some bartender wisdom on me. I'm lost in space here.
ARTHUR (as he is polishing a glass): You're not where you want to be. You feel like you're supposed to be somewhere else. Right?
JIM: You said it.
ARTHUR: Well, here's the thing. Say you could snap your fingers and be wherever you wanted to be. Back on Earth, or on Homestead II.
JIM: Okay.
ARTHUR: I'll bet even if you got your wish, you'd still feel this way. Not in the right place. Supposed to be somewhere else. The point is, you can't get so wrapped up in where you'd rather be that you forget to make the most of where you are.
JIM: What are you telling me?
ARTHUR: Take a break from what you can't control. Live a little.
Jim starts to learn the lesson. Of interest, at least in the original script for the movie, it took Arthur a couple of times to teach Jim the lesson that he needed to hear. When Jim first encounters Arthur in the bar, shortly after figuring out that he woke up far too early, he says, "I am in trouble. I'm screwed. I am completely, ridiculously screwed."
Arthur responds by telling Jim, "That's a lot of self-pity."
Of course, Jim replies, "Self-pity? I'm going to die of old age on this ship!" He will never see Homestead II.
To which, Arthur replies, "Jim, we all die. Even androids end up on the scrap heap. It's not dying that matters, it's living. This is your life. Are you going to live it or lie down and die?"
It's an important message for all of us, and one that I need to be reminded of every once in a while. Nothing is perfect. Even if things were perfect, we would likely be wanting more out of life. The key point is to be happy and content with the life that you have. As Arthur says, "You can't get so wrapped up in where you'd rather be that you forget to make the most of where you are." Once again, here's another great example of learning an important lesson from the movies. Great advice for leaders, and really, for all of us...


